HOW TO BE C L A S S Y

QUESTION:

I notice that some young women these days take a lot of time to prepare for going out to the club/bar, but don’t make any effort on regular days. It seems like they go out of their way to impress other people, but they do not have any self-pride. What do you have to say about this?

ANSWER:

I have to say that I notice it too. These tend to be the girls that seriously do not have class. People need to learn that self-confidence is the most attractive think a man or woman can find. Looking to impress or please yourself is the best feeling ever. Which is why I want to discuss how to GET CLASS.

From http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Classy I discovered 16 steps that make you classy. One that I find interesting is: Define yourself with a clean and elegant look. It says “Excellent presentation is half of the battle. Wear clothing and accessories, which flatter your body and never wear anything you feel uncomfortable in. It is important to remember that modesty is key in earning the respect of others. A bit of cleavage may be fashionable, but true gentlemen will appreciate modesty more than exposure.”

There’s also, Be Responsible. People in their 20s don’t understand this. I mean, I understand that 20 something’s should be having fun, but adding responsibility is what makes you different from teenagers. Grow up. A little. Also, Be open to personal development. “Do not berate yourself, but be receptive to constructive change. In our world, change is inevitable. Be a positive and flexible part of it and show others the way as well. Face life rather than burying your head in the sand and others will know instinctively that you are someone whose opinion counts.”

Understanding and accepting the concept self-pride will only come to people when they are ready to. But respect is due (and given) to women that have this. If you ever notice, classy women are more desired than trashy girls. Be a classy woman, and take time all the time to maintain a good appearance at all times. It’s not that difficult.